Social Early Neutral Evaluations
A Social Early Neutral Evaluation (SENE) is dispute resolution process designed to resolve custody and parenting time disputes efficiently.
Neutral, Confidential, and Solution-Focused
In a SENE, the evaluators (usually two) provide a neutral, confidential opinion on potential outcomes if parents were to continue to litigate for custody or parenting time in the Court system. The SENE team typically contains a licensed mental health professional and an attorney. Parties (with or without attorneys) will present their concerns and important issues in their situation. The evaluators will provide their feedback, which parties may or may not adopt. As an evaluator, I am dedicated to maintaining impartiality and ensuring confidentiality throughout the mediation process. I strive to treat all parties with respect and give each equal consideration.
Why do the SENE process?
Resolve Conflicts Faster
Avoid lengthy court battles and reach agreements early in the process.
Save Money
Reduce costly litigation and attorney fees by settling disputes outside of court.
Reduce Stress for Everyone
Lower conflict and tension for both parents and children.
Get Professional Feedback
Receive recommendations from experienced evaluators based on what a court might decide.
Maintain Control of Decisions
You and the other parent stay in charge of the outcome, instead of leaving it up to the Courts.
Improve Communication
Learn strategies as coparents to work together more effectively for your children’s benefit.
Confidential Process​
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Discussions are private and cannot be used in court, giving you freedom to explore solutions openly.
Child-Focused Approach
Keeps your children’s best interests at the center of the conversation.
High Success Rate
Many families reach partial or full agreements during the session.
FAQs
How is a SENE different from mediation?​​
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While both processes aim to reach an agreement, SENE includes evaluators who offer professional recommendations based on what they believe a court might decide, which can help parents reach decisions. Mediation, on the other hand, is purely facilitative and does not include recommendations.
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Who participates in an SENE session?
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Both parents, their attorneys (if represented), and the evaluators attend. Children do not typically participate.
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Is what we discuss in SENE confidential?
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Yes. Everything said during the session is confidential and cannot be used in court, except for the final agreements reached.
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What happens if we reach an agreement?
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If an agreement is reached, it is documented in writing and can be submitted to the court for approval, making it legally binding.
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What if we can’t agree during SENE?
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If no agreement is reached, the case continues through the traditional court process. However, many families find that SENE helps clarify issues and encourages later settlement.
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Do the evaluators decide our case?
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No. Evaluators provide feedback and recommendations, but they do not make binding decisions. Only the court has that authority.
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How should I prepare for SENE?
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Bring any relevant documents (such as proposed parenting schedules) and be ready to share your concerns, goals, and ideas for resolution. It’s also helpful to come with an open mind and a willingness to compromise.